9 signs you are carrying the mental load at home
The mental load is invisible by definition, so it usually shows up sideways. Nine signs the household’s remembering is living in your head — and what each one is telling you.
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On the mental load
The invisible work of running a home — what it is, why it ends up with one person, and the things that actually move it. No shaming anyone in the household, here or in the app.
How to split the mental load with your partner
A practical, five-step way to move the invisible work of running a home from one person to two — without a spreadsheet, a fight, or a system nobody keeps up.
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What is the mental load? A plain-English explanation
The mental load is the invisible work of noticing, remembering and planning what a home needs. Here is what it actually consists of, why it lands on one person, and what shifts it.
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Reading about it is step one
Carry puts everything your household is holding — tasks, shopping, events — in one shared place everyone can see. Free to download, up to six people in a household.
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